Asian Women And White Men
Dean Cortez | Apr 23, 2012 | Comments 0

Michael asks…
This question is specifially for Asian women: What is it, exactly, that you find so appealing about White men?
I’ve noticed that in Southern California there seems to be an abundance of young attractive Asian women coupled with White men- not that there’s anything wrong with that, racial harmony and assimilation is a beautiful thing- but I’m just curious as to what the motives are behind it all. After all, you don’t see nearly as many White women dating Asian men so there is clearly a choice being made by Asian women- or by White men- to NOT date someone of their own ethnicity.
More specifically, the issue I’m trying to explore here is whether or not many of the young Asian women in the Southern California area are suffering from some sort of identity issues concerning their own ethnicity; or if this generation of second-generation Asian-American women have developed some sort of self-loathing for the men of their own community because they have been influenced by the negative portrayals of Asian men in
American media and the derogatory sterotypes that may be propagated by many.
Or is it because they feel that by dating a White man that they are somehow “moving up” the sociopolitical ladder- at least their kids are- and that they were unattainable to their own ethinicity.
Or is it purely a physical thing?

Dean Cortez answers:
When it comes to romance, all bets are off. Lots of guys of all races are drawn to petite women. Asian women tend to be petite. Asian women also tend to be ageless and look as good at 50 as they did at 20.
Lots of guys think this way, so that may explain why Asian women are attractive to the men of other races.

Donna asks…
Will lots of white women be dating Asian men soon?
I’ve read that Asian women/white men are now the largest interracial dating group. I live in an area that is mostly white, and am just now seeing more Asian people living here, and more of these couples around town. Do you think that if more and more wm start dating Asian women, that we’ll be seeing more Asian men with ww? It seems like Asian women and wm are a good fit because white men like the small body types and more passive natures of Asian women. I’ve primarily dated wm, but am now attempting to date outside my race more. I lived in a larger city which exposed me different things, and back in my smaller hometown, I’ve grown tired of the typical white male attitude and want to expand my horizons. Are Asian men into dating ww, or are they very traditional and prefer to date within their race? I knew an Asian boy in jr. high who was interested in me, which was surprising cause his family was very strict and traditional. What about Asian men in general? Into IR dating or no
Or will we always see people primarily dating within their own race? Will IR couples make up a sizable chunk and come close to making up a majority in our lifetimes? Will we ever see as many ww/Asian men couples as we see ww/black men or wm/Asian women pairings? Or are the differences in culture too great?

Dean Cortez answers:
I don’t know if I could speak for all Asian men, but I would prefer to date an Asian woman mainly for the fact that I like Korean culture and was brought up in it to some degree and I think it’s important to do that and have that kind of tie to your roots. I would think that a Korean woman would be more likely to reinforce this, though if a white girl would agree I wouldn’t have any problems. For me it’s less about “tradition” and more about acknowleging where you came from.
As far as Asian men dating white women in general, if white women approached them/showed interest, most would welcome the chance. The problem is that western culture doesn’t have a lot of positive feedback for Asian men in terms of sexual desireability. Most attractive male stars are white, black men are often associated (fairly or not) with virility and sexual prowess, and hispanics have that “latin lover” image. But Asian men, in US society, tend to be emasculated.
But it’s not just society’s fault, though. Us Asian guys need to step up. We need to get confident, and when a girl strikes our fancy, do something about it.
So to answer your question, yes Asian men are willing to date white women, but something has to change in order for it to actually happen.

Joseph asks…
How come white women and asian men couples are more more common than asian women and white guys?
all asian(chinese japanese korean…)/ white couples i have seen are white women and asian guys , no matter in asian countries or america
i always seen asian men with white women and never seen asian women with white guys

Dean Cortez answers:
I think it’s the opposite. I see more white men with Asian women. I see it more in movies 2. Lucy Lu is always with a white guy. Nicolas Gage is married to an Asian woman. I think they want an exotic women and are scare to go black. So they pick the next best thing.
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Robert asks…
White men dating Asian women —vs— White women dating Asian men?
Do you notice these differences.
When it’s White men dating Asian women
-White men are usually financially well off, educated, and have status.
-You often hear degrading comments against White women and Asian men.
-White guy doesn’t really care about asian culture and if he does, it’s usually rooted in the women.
-Girl is benefiting financially or getting a visa.
When it’s White women dating Asian men
-Money, status, and education have little to do with the relationship.
-White women is very open minded or even admires asian culture.
-Nobody is benefiting from money or a visa.
-Rarely do the two hate on Asian women or white men.
So why question is, why is the first group kinda shallow and even hateful, while the 2nd group is more peaceful and not shallow?

Dean Cortez answers:
Well..some white men go to an Asian country to find a wife. I think he knows what he’s getting into. The women, from the poorer country, will go with the white man for a better life. When you’re in those countries, you could be sold into sexual slavery. You could be working till day’s end for a dollar.
White women wouldn’t go to another country to find a husband. Women in general usually don’t go to other countries to find a life partner. When this couple happens, the Asian man is usually already a citizen…

Carol asks…
Why is there a lot of Asian Women and White Men couples?
I notice there are a lot of Asian women and White man couples nowadays, in fact I read that its the largest interracial coupling in North America!! Why are White men and Asian women drawn to each other so much? I’m not complaining. In my family, there are white men and asian women couples!
my teacher is japanese and most of her relationships are with white men.
In new york city, never a day goes by where I walk down the street and I see asian women and white men couples.
What? subservient wives? in my family, the asian women were born in raised in the USA.
some of you are narrow minded idiots.

Dean Cortez answers:
Because Asian women tend to be gorgeous with beautiful hair and perfect skin. I’m not sure why they go for white men though…
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