Chinese Girl Dating
Dean Cortez | Jun 04, 2012 | Comments 0
James asks…
First time dating a chinese girl who cant cant speak english fluently?
I have a date with this chinese girl who cant speak english fluently. I am worried its gonna go all wrong as i really like her and dont want any communication breakdown. what should i do? what should i talk about? dont wanna loose her. people please help.
Dean Cortez answers:
Get a phrasebook, and make an effort to speak Chinese to her. Make sure you know what dialect of Chinese! That way part of the date itself can be just talking and trying to talk, passing the book back and forth pointing at lines, silly stuff like that. It will make her comfortable that you are trying to speak her language, and show that you care enough to try.
Mandy asks…
Would you consider an Indian guy dating a Chinese girl interracial dating?
Indians are considered Asian, so are Chinese. But they look different. J/W…
I would consider it interracial just because the looks are very different. I don’t know if I can say they’re caucasian even though I have read an article about it because I just don’t see it that way even with the “bone” strucuture and face structure.
Dean Cortez answers:
I’m pretty sure most Indians are considered Caucasian. Caucasian doesn’t necessarily mean white.
Race is not determined by the continent a person comes from. So yes… It is interracial.
Ruth asks…
I’m a Chinese girl dating a Korean guy…how strict are Korean about interracial dating?
I’m not sure if my bf is making all this up so that I’m a secret to his family, I told him I’m upset because my family knows we’re dating and they are accepting him so I wanted his family or at least parents to know that I exist even if he told me I will meet them around thanks giving, he told me that he told his mom about me and that she wasn’t too happy about the idea and always wanted him to date Korean girls. He is at a family gathering right now for his grandmas birthday and he didn’t want them to know that he is dating and plus that I’m Chinese….What should I do I feel its unfair that he has to hide me and it doesn’t make too much of a difference if we dated longer as he said that then later during thanks giving I’m going to meet his family..I am giving him the time til then but it doesn’t change my race let alone would it change the way his parents or family think of me no matter if we’ve been dating a few months longer or not? I just hope that he really follows through of what he said….I’m upset and I definitely don’t want to be fooled, love is blind…and I think I really need some help on different perspectives or opinions about this…
My mistake..I mean different RACE
Dean Cortez answers:
Idk my family is pretty traditional but they’re pretty loose about this stuff, so idk if it matters what my opinion is, but I’m full Korean and my parents wouldn’t care about your situation.
They prefer that the girls I date are Asian though. As in Chinese/Korean/Japanese. And my mom is the typical Korean mom that is racist. It’s just that my dad doesn’t really care too much. I don’t really see the big deal. Historically speaking, weren’t Korean people all Chinese at one point?
EDIT: Korean people do tend to look down on Chinese people though. Maybe he’s afraid of what his family will think and is trying to delay it. Honestly, I would still be mad at him either way. Like you said, how long you guys have been dating doesn’t change anything like your race and stuff.
Linda asks…
Dating Chinese Girl… Malaysian gls have interest in African man?
Hi I am foreign student in Malaysia, I met one special Chinese girl she has characters and looks I really appreciate. So I want to know her better!
guys what should I know about Chinese Malaysian girls before i asked her for date…??
do u think Chinese Girls have interest in brown colored African man!?
Dean Cortez answers:
Well if they don’t, they’re racist.
Rofl, I’m asian myself, I love all beautiful,colorful people ;]
Carol asks…
how rare is it to see a chinese guy dating a white girl?
Hey, here I’m not asking how popular the kind of dating is when the genders are reversed. Here I want to know if it is really very rare to see a chinese guy dating a white girl even if you walk down a main street of a city where there is a large Chinese population?
Dean Cortez answers:
Not often. White girls tend to like guys who can stand up tall and Asian men tend to be short, if you get my meaning.
Sandy asks…
Chinese girl dating Indian guy.?
I am chinese and have just recently started dating a Indian guy. He is the sweetest guy ever. Only problem is his family. He is always arguing with his family because of me and because of my culture. I haven’t met his family yet and I think they shouldn’t judge me for the culture I am in. I really like this guy and we say i love you and stuff to each other. This relationship is getting serious but the only problem is his family. He says that he’ll do anything just to be with me, should I trust his words? Not saying that I don’t trust him, I really do, I am just scared that I put all my heart into this love and his family is not accepting the fact that I am dating him. We talked about our future together but its just that his family is in the way of fulfiling our dreams.
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