Malaysian Women Rights
Dean Cortez | May 22, 2012 | Comments 0

Helen asks…
Malaysians, can you imagine Malaysia under PAS’s reign?
Another Afghanistan perhaps? No more rights for women. ;o

Dean Cortez answers:
The agenda of the PAS, and also that of the sharia court showns a level of paranoia and immaturity in my opinion. A faith and a party that is open handed, dedicated and belives in the virtue of what they are doing, does NOT need to create or enforce laws for force conformity.
Here’s why it would be a disaster:
Malaysia currently is multicultural, relatively peaceful and not despised by the world at large.
East malaysia, despite the misleading statistics, is not primarily muslim at all.
A muslim state run by the PAS would drive out foreign infrastructure investment, commerce and technology. Think of how much the water service has improved over the last 20 years – that’s Australian technology. Think of how the education system has changed – that’s British and Chinese infuence. Think of being able to use a real toilet instead of a hole in the floor – that’s european business infulence (Thanks Mahatir). To have a psycho party in power will drive all the will to invest and innovate away from Malaysia, change its profile to a radical state and isolate it from the world that’s been embracing it now for at least the last 30 years.
Even the muslims in my family say the PAS are bad news.

Robert asks…
here’s a good one you have heard. a guy on the internet very handsome,says he’s my soulmate?
ok he looks like a model. i’m a simple small town girl(women) he’s in malaysia right now and has inherited 4.5 million dollars. he’s been feeding me with all the compliments we all want to hear. now he’s telling me to not ask questions and don’t tell anyone, because he doesn’t want to be ripped off. he wants me to talk to his attorney and give him information so the funds can be transfered into an account. then we can be together and get married. ok now i know this is all crap. and i would never give out personal info.
my question to all of you is he trying to impress me or do you think he’s doing something illegal? he keeps saying it’s all legit and trust me. right. if he is trying to get me to do something illegal who do i contact, do i wait until he gives me more info on what to do. he say’s the money is an inheritance from the Malaysian petroleum co. his father died when he was a kid. i’ve asked many questions and they aren’t getting answered. he says ” be patient and i will be compensated for helping and being so honest with him. what do you all think. i know this happens all the time. if he sent me legit money can i keep it? wouldn’t that be cool. thanks
i’ve been looking thru some other resolved answers. i know it is. i don’t know if i should string him along or say bye bye
should i get more info on him? i don’t know who to report to and i don’t want to get into trouble. i’ve saved all the messages he’s sent. i won’t tell
thanks for all your quick help. i looked on the fbi website and i don’t know which dept. to get ahold of. i’ll research it more

Dean Cortez answers:
Basically, the longer you string him along, the more your name will be sold to other scammers. As long as they think you are gullible, they will sell your name to other 419 scammers who will contact you with other scams as well as email viruses to you that will hijack your contact list. It’s very dangerous to string these people along
There is NO money. This scam has been told thousands of times though this is the first time I’ve heard of the guy being in Malaysia. Normally they say they are in Nigeria or Russia. This is nothing but a scam to get you to eventually reveal your bank account number and send a copy of your passport or drivers license so they can hack your account. Or he will ask you to pay upfront for “transfer fees” or “taxes” or an “export certificate” or “laywers fees”
What he is asking you to do is illegal – even if there were money he’s trying to use you to launder money and embezzle it out of Malaysia to avoid taxes
Get rid of him ASAP. Don’t tell him you know it’s a scam – tell him you met someone locallly and cannot continue speaking to him but you wish him luck. And tell him you won’t take money from anyone you’ve never met so he can keep it all
You can report this to the FBI http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
An IP lookup will show this person probably isn’t even in Malaysia
egyptians guys, plz help!!…….. i love him i relly do?
im gonna make this brief. im malaysian, 19y.o fallen for this egyptian guy 19y.o. i just got in egypt bout 6 months, been friends for 5 months, been his gf for 3 months. i love this guy but im scared of loving him cos my mum told me that dont fall in love wth egyptians, they r different from us.. n in msia, there r always divorce/fighting over child/sue/dumped cases of msians women when they marry egyptians.. im generalizing here i know but im scared too.i know im only 19, so marrying is relly relly far away from me right now, but that was what my mum’s thinking. d thing is that i trust him cos he had brought me to meet his mum twice, so i know hes no just playing with me.now ,my mum just gave me email telling me that its not fair for me to b in lov wth him cos if i marry him i,m going to stay here n theyr gonna lose me.. i know shes generalizing here too but dats wht she say.my mum has a lot of problems right now, n if i tell her that i love this guy, this is gonna b another NEW WHOLE BIG problem for her, i dont want to make her worry/sad/cry.my mum n dad is coming to egypt in 2 motnhs n im gonna get the to talk to my bf (my bf says that he wants to bring his mum to meet my parents, just s friends, its okey for him). d thing is im not completely sure that is a good idea.nway, no everytime when he tells me that he loves me, i couldnt reply i love him back cos ill b thinking of my mum n id b thinking that if i say i love him too, it wont b fair/like im disobeying my mum.my mum doesnt know im his gf, she did make some jokes bout it like 2 months ago cos this guy is not properly educated.but he has a pure heart, v close to his mum, v caring towards me.im meeting him tomorrow.im thinking of breaking up wth him cos i dont want to disobey my mum by loving him, but if i do that, im gonna get deeply hurt (him too), n im not being 100%honest with myself cos i relly love him, n he relly loves me.im confused. i wanna do d right thing for everybody–my parents, my bf n me, but i dont know how.. i just wish ive never met him, never b his friends, never fall in love wth him cos now i think im gonna have to hurt him.what should i do? i know im chickening out from my love towards him but i honestly m scared, so scared from all this. i didnt plan to fall in love, i came here to study, not to fall in love, but i did fall in love.i want a solution, but i dotn know what. i love him, dont wnt to lose him, relly love him, but i love my parents too n ive been loving/going out wth him/being his gf for a long time behind their backs. they knew i go out wth him with group of friends, but sometimes i went alone with him to open spaces of course.i just dnt want to hurt d ppl whom i care about.plz help me.. n plz NO BASHING. IM ALREADY SAD FROM ALL THIS.. please, a word of encouragement/piece of advice/thoughts/opinion/personal experience would b nice
p/s : i know im a coward in all this, but plz try to understand. im just 19 y.o, so scared.. this is d first time i fall in love, experience what it feels like.. its sweet, horrifying, haunting, breathless, perfect, sad, silly, scary at d same time.. i thank God for giving me a chance to meet some1 like him cos he shows/teach me lots of stuff that makes me loves him.ive never felt any1 so ‘real’ like him before. hes not perfect, he did some wrong stuffs, n im glad i knew them cos he wouldnt be ‘real’ if it wasnt for the mistakes taht he had done..
p/s/s: egyptians, esp egyptians guys,plz plz tell me wether this guy is serious bout me/want my love/soemthing else… just plz tell me all ur worries/thought cos i reallly wanna know..whenever i talk to msians bout this, they say dont get involve with egyptians cos theyr gonna make u fall in love with u, be all nice n sweet, marry u, get visa to malaysia, work in malaysia to get more money, dump/divorce u, take ur child, n return back to egypt to marry an egyptian women.. im sorry im being rude, v v v rude, but this is what 99%mentality of mslayssians.. i just want opinions on this cos these r what HAPPENED in malaysia, written in d paper.. :’(
maybe im stupid for taking a chance with an egyptian, but i cant help it, im in love with him too much already, n i told him bout all this, n i dotn find him suspicious.. i trust him
oowh, have u ever heard of malaysian marrying egyptian? or malaysian has egyptian bf/gf couple??
p/s : question 2
he doesnt let me b friends with other egyptians guys cos he say that he wil not feel like a man if his girl talk to other egyptians guys.. what do u think? is he being controlling or m i beign insensitive?

Dean Cortez answers:
If you post this in the Travel > Middle East and Africa > Egypt section you’ll get alot of responses, much more than here.

Sandy asks…
Egyptians guys, plz help!!…….. i love him i relly do?
im gonna make this brief. im malaysian, 19y.o fallen for this egyptian guy 19y.o. i just got in egypt bout 6 months, been friends for 5 months, been his gf for 3 months. i love this guy but im scared of loving him cos my mum told me that dont fall in love wth egyptians, they r different from us.. n in msia, there r always divorce/fighting over child/sue/dumped cases of msians women when they marry egyptians.. im generalizing here i know but im scared too.i know im only 19, so marrying is relly relly far away from me right now, but that was what my mum’s thinking. d thing is that i trust him cos he had brought me to meet his mum twice, so i know hes no just playing with me.now ,my mum just gave me email telling me that its not fair for me to b in lov wth him cos if i marry him i,m going to stay here n theyr gonna lose me.. i know shes generalizing here too but dats wht she say.my mum has a lot of problems right now, n if i tell her that i love this guy, this is gonna b another NEW WHOLE BIG problem for her, i dont want to make her worry/sad/cry.my mum n dad is coming to egypt in 2 motnhs n im gonna get the to talk to my bf (my bf says that he wants to bring his mum to meet my parents, just s friends, its okey for him). d thing is im not completely sure that is a good idea.nway, no everytime when he tells me that he loves me, i couldnt reply i love him back cos ill b thinking of my mum n id b thinking that if i say i love him too, it wont b fair/like im disobeying my mum.my mum doesnt know im his gf, she did make some jokes bout it like 2 months ago cos this guy is not properly educated.but he has a pure heart, v close to his mum, v caring towards me.im meeting him tomorrow.im thinking of breaking up wth him cos i dont want to disobey my mum by loving him, but if i do that, im gonna get deeply hurt (him too), n im not being 100%honest with myself cos i relly love him, n he relly loves me.im confused. i wanna do d right thing for everybody–my parents, my bf n me, but i dont know how.. i just wish ive never met him, never b his friends, never fall in love wth him cos now i think im gonna have to hurt him.what should i do? i know im chickening out from my love towards him but i honestly m scared, so scared from all this. i didnt plan to fall in love, i came here to study, not to fall in love, but i did fall in love.i want a solution, but i dotn know what. i love him, dont wnt to lose him, relly love him, but i love my parents too n ive been loving/going out wth him/being his gf for a long time behind their backs. they knew i go out wth him with group of friends, but sometimes i went alone with him to open spaces of course.i just dnt want to hurt d ppl whom i care about.plz help me.. n plz NO BASHING. IM ALREADY SAD FROM ALL THIS.. please, a word of encouragement/piece of advice/thoughts/opinion/personal experience would b nice
p/s : i know im a coward in all this, but plz try to understand. im just 19 y.o, so scared.. this is d first time i fall in love, experience what it feels like.. its sweet, horrifying, haunting, breathless, perfect, sad, silly, scary at d same time.. i thank God for giving me a chance to meet some1 like him cos he shows/teach me lots of stuff that makes me loves him.ive never felt any1 so ‘real’ like him before. hes not perfect, he did some wrong stuffs, n im glad i knew them cos he wouldnt be ‘real’ if it wasnt for the mistakes taht he had done..
p/s/s: egyptians, esp egyptians guys,plz plz tell me wether this guy is serious bout me/want my love/soemthing else… just plz tell me all ur worries/thought cos i reallly wanna know..whenever i talk to msians bout this, they say dont get involve with egyptians cos theyr gonna make u fall in love with u, be all nice n sweet, marry u, get visa to malaysia, work in malaysia to get more money, dump/divorce u, take ur child, n return back to egypt to marry an egyptian women.. im sorry im being rude, v v v rude, but this is what 99%mentality of mslayssians.. i just want opinions on this cos these r what HAPPENED in malaysia, written in d paper.. :’(
maybe im stupid for taking a chance with an egyptian, but i cant help it, im in love with him too much already, n i told him bout all this, n i dotn find him suspicious.. i trust him
oowh, have u ever heard of malaysian marrying egyptian? or malaysian has egyptian bf/gf couple??
p/s : question 2
he doesnt let me b friends with other egyptians guys cos he say that he wil not feel like a man if his girl talk to other egyptians guys.. what do u think? is he being controlling or m i beign insensitive?

Dean Cortez answers:
Hmmm…
Well you shouldn’t we are so different ! I do not think you can adapt to our culture nor he can to your culture…
Your mother is also a problem ..
I never heard about that kind of marriage plus I don’t think an Egyptian would marry a Malaysian Girl for a visa when he can marry a girl from Europe ? Having a visa or european passport is much better ?

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Dean Cortez answers:
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Carol asks…
Why can a Muslim woman in Malaysia be legally married without her consent?
In Malaysia father may force his daughter to marry someone without her consent or even against her will, and that marriage is considered legal. Isn’t Malaysian Muslim family law supposed to be based on Shariah, while Shariah prohibits such practice and that marriage is invalid in Shariah. Not to mention that the thing is against human rights. How come there is such an inhumane law in Malaysia?
Great, Baby Doll, how would you like to end up married to someone whom you don’t love, and if the guy rapes you on the first night?
BJ forever, such a law is in Malaysia, and it concerns Muslims only. Non-Muslims cannot be subjected to non-consensual marriages.
Kathy, it would be better for Malay girls to have your mindset. But many, especially kampong Malay girls are unaware of their rights.
Adibah, that’s true but there is no legal mechanism that can force a Malaysian Hindu woman into marriage. It’s only the pressure of the society. But you’re absolutely right, it’s probably a left-over of Hinduism. Although my grandfather is a Hindu and he was supportive when my mother got married, but I guess the Vaishnava are more tolerant…
Matchmaking is nothing wrong as long as the girl agrees. I think most of Malays won’t force their daughters into mariage, but I’m disgusted by that law.
Everyone, re-read the question, why is it legal?
Friday, I’m afraid they do… Some, definitely not a majority, but the thing is legal here.
Jebat, the marriage I mentioned is illegal there. Here it is legal.

Dean Cortez answers:
It is cultural.(probably the effect of the Hindus colonization ages ago) It has always been this way. Muslim girls feels that their parents choice is always the best for them. Or they will jump into the marriage because, you know in Malaysia, the WHOLE family will get involve in this matter and start to pressure her in whatever way they can. Only girls with strong resistance have the courage to fight. I personally think some parents force their daughter into marriage because they want to let go of the ‘burden’ or fear that their daughter will be married too late and she’ll get the official title of ‘ANDARTU’ (old virgin), and some parent considered this as a shame.
Edit :
i don’t think only muslim girls are forced, even the hindu girls are forced =(
edit :
ok, why is it legal? Some ‘smart guys’ who happened to be professor and muftis in malaysia had misintepret the true sharia laws and implemented it in Malaysia. Some sharia laws in Malaysia is misintepreted and deviates from the Quran and Sunnah teaching. And guess what is more disturbing? They teach all that stuff in school. That a girl can be forced into a marriage without her consent……………….

Nancy asks…
Have you come across ??
a situation where when you take the train (ie. monorail, lrt) where you see pregnant women and old people standing with no place to sit. i come across this situation everyday, but yesterday was worst, when i was standing and this old lady got into the train and nobody bothered to offer her a seat. she could hardly stand, she was holding the iron bar with her 2 hands. it was so sad to see, and when you see the people sitting down, they have this ‘dont care’ look and they pretend to close their eyes. Until one girl got up to offer me a seat and i told her the old lady needs it more and i held the lady’s hand and gave her my seat. why are these people so selfish. where are their courtesy for the older generation. and when people complain and say that the malaysians are unpolite they get all worked up, by right its the fact.
no offence Holyman..i totally agree with you but we need to also point out our mistakes so that we could improve ourselves
AQ : I agree with you. we should practice what we preach

Dean Cortez answers:
I would like to share my experience here.
I was taking public transport during my pregnancy and like you case, I ended up standing for the whole journey. Then one day I noticed a sign inside the trains and buses that there are ‘special’ seats allocated for thos who needed it more. So, every time i take public transport, I head to the allocated seat. Well, some people will automatically stand up and give you the seat while some took a while b4 giving up the seat to you. For those who pretended that they never see me (as though I was invisible), I will tell them nicely: I believe I need this seat more than you do.
WOW, they immediately stood up.
Try it! Cos even today when I take public transports and I noticed old folks standing, I will bring the old folks to the allocated seats and make the person stand up.
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Baby N, you said -> Malaysia outside Malaysia isn’t really great at anything. You are starting an indirect war in here unnecessarily. We are all talking about a small issue about human’s behaviour (not only happening in Malaysia. It can happen in Singapore, Thailand or even Hong Kong). What makes you think the Malaysians are not watching enough news? What makes you think that they are not great at anything? I am upset to see such an irresponsible statement here so I have decided to ask you too –> What make you think you are great at everything?

Joseph asks…
If ppl with no i/c in M’sia haven’t got an identity pass/temporary tag, if car accident/rape/robbery case=null?
If I have an identity card and the person who knock your car door and wheel side impact during the accident but gave me his a car number plate and a car model ask me to claim from his car insurance after the car accident and promise to meet me at puchong police station for insurance settlement issues, but never turned up? Do you think he has and insurance? Why did he not turn up if he says he will settle using his car insurance and i let him go because he said he has few ringgits to use only but how can he drive on the road if he just has few ringgits, in case of emergency during driving. I will not drive if i have a few ringgits in my pocket, anytime during car accident cannot pay clinic bills.
Now m’sian police will have to investigate is he a malaysian and is he driving a stolen car or a car that cannot be declared after accident for whatever reasons whether he has a driving license or not because he never turn up in the police station for insurance. He was driving WES4329 Red satria knocked me at IOI mall car park WJB5905 on the left side of the back wheel and head on using his car front bumper to the side of my car due to his carelessless, looking at the woman sitting beside him, not concentrating that there is a car stopped right in front of him which is me using WJB5905. Malay Police says they will follow up whether he will come to the police station and deliver his religious promise. 2 months waiting period for insurance claims. Since i am working night shift, i told the car workshop to temporarily inform me once insurance claim has been done in the right way because the PIAM car workshop in puchong (HUP Hoong Motor Works, in perindustrian Kinrara, saw and believed that it was indeed a bumper impact on my car door and I was innocent) from a foreman forensic view on my back wheel condition and the impact on my car door. He said he will follow up with the insurance and follow up on the police report in 2 months time). The risk i will take is whether he is a malay or indonesian/foreigner driving because their skin colour looks the same and whether he has an insurance or no insurance.
What is your advise the opposite party no turn up after car accidents?
I was just being good hearted and i let him go because he pleas the he has only a few ringgits in his pocket and he claims his relative is a policeman, and ask me to trust his faith in God. But when he never turn up at the police station for claims, i suspected WES4329 maybe something wrong somewhere, what should i do next?
Malaysian police in puchong charge of traffic insurance investigation is called Miss Yati Head and I have done a report for counter claim insurance with the malay/indon who claimed to pay me on my car repair using his so called car insurance, but disappeared
To investigate with car number plate will probably involve payment for police to start investigation on car number plate, hopefully it is not above the price of my insurance, just on the car number plate and car offender’s insurance company
If the price of tracing the insurance offender cost more than the insurance claim, then i think my comprehensive car insurance does not protect me as a citizen
In malaysia a prayer man/prayer leader who brings in illegal foreigners using religion can assassinate anyone without identity/law for example
To make good to prayer master taiko Islam in malaysia, Professor from University of Islam foreigner aged 56 years old is buying a house fro 460,000 ringgit malaysia, housing loan requested, ALL MONEY LENDERS OR MALAYSIA GOVT PLEASE CALL 0123332177 Edy Chin Reality please
The population of foreigners in my country exceeded 50% of national population because the entry requirement is so simple, with got will VISA, so govt will have to bear accomodation and cars to avoid conflicts since they are allowed to come in religion’s or God’s name
[thoowk 28/09/2008 19:00:49]
Found that she was connected and her linksys light
says she is disonnected ever since yesterday till 6pm today
but when i check singnet server someone may not be her was
connected
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User-Id jenny_aj logged in since 2008-09-27 10:13:59
verify her identification card
with singnet
disconnected the user who does not have a singnet identification card
assisted her on connection on linksys configurations to singtel
asked her for her new password she wants to reset. Assist in connecting
she was connected to singtel
again
Tail last 100 Radius Logs for jenny_aj
2008-09-28 18:53:04 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:47:49 jenny_aj accepted
200
Tail last 100 Radius Logs for jenny_aj
2008-09-28 18:53:04 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:47:49 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:42:09 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:41:36 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:40:37 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:39:34 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:38:30 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:37:28 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:37:16 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:36:14 jenny_aj rejected: Bad Encrypted password
2008-09-28 18:31:55 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:26:26 jenny_aj accepted
2008-09-28 18:25:26 jenny_aj rejected: MaxSession Exceeded
2008-09-28 18:24:26 jenny_aj rejected: MaxSession Exceeded
2008-09-28 18:23:26 jenny_aj rejected: MaxSession Exceeded
Disconnected illegal singtel immigrant with no i/c
Assisted her to remove her bluetooth drivers to
avoid illegal tapping

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